Sep 27, 2018
It’s time we break the mold and start having sex-positive
conversations, to create a more sex-positive world and culture. And
to help me do this I’ve got Alexa Martinez on the show with me
today.
Alexa is a sex coach and mentor on a mission to reform sex
education and sexuality expression across the globe. She’s from the
deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through
taboos regarding sex, it’s her. She’s the founder of The Violet
Butterfly, a blog about love, sex & relationships and she speaks
internationally on the same subjects.
On today’s show we chat about:
- Sex (duh!)
- How Alexa’s struggle in an undersexed relationship steered
her from a degree in forensic science to becoming a “sexually
curious misfit”, sex coach and mentor
- Porn and sexual health
- Ethical porn recommendations that focus on conscious creative
porn and pleasure like
Cindy Gallop - Make Love Not Porn
Erika Lust - Porn with a feminine point of view
- The most interesting topics covered and conversed about in her
community space
Non- ejaculatory orgasms
Yoni eggs
Threesomes and open relationships
extreme love
Adult breastfeeding (yup, you read that right)
- BDSM -bondage, dominance-submission, sadism,
masochism
- How you can create a relationship model that works with you and
for you
- Sexual oppression and repression